Anal Masturbation

For those girls who are open to the idea of using their backdoor to enhance their masturbation experience, I’ll share some of my favorite ways to use that nerve-intensive area to its maximum potential. Again, this is your body – why should you *not* explore this part of it as well if it will provide you with sexual pleasure?

Why would I want to use my butt to masturbate, you ask? The anus contains a great many nerves, just as your vaginal area does. Additionally, the anal muscles are interconnected to the Kegels – the muscles that provide the contractions when you orgasm. By adding those muscles into the mix when you’re hitting your orgasm, the overall intensity of the orgasm itself is intensified. You’ll just have to trust me on this until you actually try it yourself. Once you do, you’ll be hooked – I guarantee it!

If you have not already done so, start off with your fingers, you get used to the idea and feelings of having something in your butt. As you get more comfortable with it, then you can move on to using butt plugs, dildoes and other itemsto penetrate your @!#$ to help intensify your masturbation results! There are several kinds of devices that can be used to provide anal stimulation.

Butt Plugs

Butt plugs are basically dildoes that are specially shaped to fit into your anus, and remain there. They start out small on one end and taper out to a larger size, and end up with a narrow part, and a flare on the end to keep it from getting “lost” inside you when you insert it. Butt plugs have two basic purposes. One is to provide a “full” feeling in your rectum, and the other is to provide the stretch of the anus and an item against which the anal muscles can contract. The anal muscle will grab a hold of the narrow end of the plug and the sensation of those muscles holding it in place, along with that “full” feeling, will act to provide significant stimulation to you during masturbation. Good butt plugs are made of a silicone or latex material that is pliable/flexible. They even make plugs that are inflatable, allowing you to inflate it to whatever size you can take, as well as vibrating plugs that, as the name implies, have little vibrators built into them.

Anal Beads

Anal beads are basically 1 inch (or smaller) balls on a string that are designed to be inserted into the rectum, and pulled out one at a time during your orgasm. As I indicated, the anal muscles are interconnected with your Kegel muscles. As you move through your orgasm, pulling the Anal beads out of your ass will cause the anal muscles to flex and contract, thereby adding to the intensity of your orgasm (very much so, as a matter of fact). These take a little getting used to in order to use them effectively, but the feeling of that intense wave coursing through your body as you pull each one of those balls out of your butt while you’re cumming has to be felt to be believed!

Vibrators & Dildoes
There is no rule that says you can’t use your vibrator or dildoto penetrate yourself anally. As a matter of fact, it is very common for girls with two of these devices to do what is called a “DP” – or double penetration. DP = one vibrator/dildo in the pussy, and one in the ass. Penetrating and fucking yourself simultaneously in both holes will be an intense experience as well. And, as I point out in my “first time anal” instructions, using these to prepare for full-on anal sex with a live penis is highly recommended. If you can masturbate anally with these, then when it comes time to have anal sex with your partner, you should have no problem whatsoever with accepting something as large as a penis in your butt.

Lubrication & Other Tips

Regardless of what kind of toy you use for back door pleasure, you MUST use some form of lubrication. The anal canals, unlike the vaginal ones, produce no lubrication of their own, and trying to insert anything into your back end without lubing up first can be painful and can damage the delicate tissues back there. The standard lubes (KY and AstroGlide) work perfectly well for anal play, too, so you should have no excuse for going without.

It is also important to note that you should never use any toy or material made of regular glass for back door play. The anal muscles can be very strong (why do you think guys like screwing a girl in the butt?), and when they clamp down on something (esp. during the orgasm), they can break fragile items like the neck on a glass bottle! (Though they do make high-strength glass anal toys)

Never take a toy that has been in your butt and put in on or in your vagina. The anal canals contain a lot of bacteria that can be detrimental to other parts of your body, and moving between your ass and your vagina or mouth is not a good idea at all. Having said that, be sure you clean anything you use in your butt extremely well when you’re done. If possible, use condoms to cover anything that goes in your ass to help keep them clean.