How to Use a Vibrator

Over the years vibrators have grown in popularity since girl power has grown (thanks to the spice girls) and the embarrassment of owning a vibrator has dwindled (Thanks to the like of Ann Summers who whom can be made responsible (and proud of it) for making the sex toy ranges fashionable). Many women openly admit to their friends they have a vibrator, would even go great detail as to tell their friends about how great the vibrator was they bought the other day! Especially over a glass of wine and a room full of girlfriends!

If it is your first time using a vibrator,remember its your first time and go gentle. Wait until your house is empty and the kids are at school for no interruptions for at least a few hours. You may want to warm up a little and get yourself in the moodbefore the vibrator even gets switched on I.e. watch a porn movie or a favouritefilm that contains your favourite actor/ess in a really steamy love scene(basically do what you have to get yourself in the mood) - everybody’s different!

Once you are feeling aroused and in the mood. Its time to take a look at your vibrator. Get to get now your toy have a good look at it. After all its yours and yours only (it is not advisable to swap sex toys due to cross infection of sexual diseases) Most vibrators have different settings for the speed, so you can experiment with what speed is for you. However if as you are a beginner, it is best to start at a low speed, and just start exploring what feels good. As I said in a few lines before get to now your sex toy and try experimenting on different parts of your body you don’t have to start right on your clitoris, try your nipples and around your breasts, legs, arms and neck. Then work you way to your vagina, exploring all parts of your clitoris. Remember if its your first time! it all about trial and error, if you find you are a little sensitive, it would to be advisable to put your panties back on to protect from the vibrations but not entirely or your could even wrap the vibrator in a cloth to dull the vibrations. At this point you will have to work out on your own as to what speed and pressure that works best for you, go through all the speeds and gauge what you feel is the best for you.

Go on what are you waiting for!