Masturbation, Female PART II
HOW TO DO YOU
This is intended to provide you with some ideas on basic masturbation techniques – stuff you can do just using your hands and other odds and ends that everyone will have around the house (not including the toys and stuff).
Quite frankly, there is no right way or wrong way to masturbate. As I said earlier, it is your body – you get to decide what you want to do to it, how you want to do it, etc. Only you can determine what is off limits in the privacy of your own space where no one else can see or hear you. There’s no special position, no certain time of the day, no certain location that is or is not acceptable for masturbation (well, as long as it doesn’t violate any local laws!
To begin with, you should spend some time caressing and rubbing your body – all over it, not just your genitals. The female body is a work of art, and is covered in erogenous zones. If you don’t explore your body with your own hands, you may not be aware of some of your erogenous areas. For most girls, of course, the boobs, the stomach, the inner thighs, and the pelvic areas (front and back) are very sensual spots. These are good places to start – spend some time running your hands across these areas and see how your body reacts. Grab, pinch and lightly twist your nipples for example. Wet your finger with your mouth and lightly trace around your nipple – does that not feel good? For some it won’t, but for others it most definitely will.
And it is important to note that, despite anything I suggest in here, different things will work for different people. Some things will work as described for some, but not others. It is important for you to experiment and see what works for you.
It is also important to note that some younger women are anorgasmic - they cannot achieve orgasm (or have a very hard time doing so). Most grow out of this eventually (some as late as their mid 20s), so don’t get too exasperated if you cannot bring yourself off and you are only in your early teens (more on this in Part V coming soon). Your goal in masturbating should be to enjoy yourself – not necessarily to achieve orgasm. Use the time to explore your body and its reactions to the way it is touched, pinched, rubbed, etc. Don’t consider it a failure if you do not hit the big O every time.
Your Built-In Sex Toy
You come equipped with the one indispensable sex toy – your fingers. Your fingers can be used to do a great many things to your body. And they don’t need batteries! w00t! Here are some good things you can use your fingers for:
Use your index finger and thumb to twist and play with your clit. If you are not already aware of it, the clit is the “special button” that is the center of the orgasmic universe for most girls. You’ll have to play around with the motions and strokes to find out which ones work best for you. If ever there was an example of “different strokes for different folks,” this would be it. Some girls find it stimulating to lightly slap or swat their clit or vaginal area.
You can use your fingers and hands to explore the entire area around your pussy – the inner and outer lips, your hood, the mons, your anus, etc. Get a mirror and use it to watch yourself explore this part of your body!
You can use one or more fingers to penetrate yourself. You won’t be able to get too deep in your own business, but the most sensitive areas of the vagina are the outer 1-2 inches, so you’ll be more than able to generate some excitement here. Don’t forget you can also use your own natural juices (your pussy juices) as a lube – dip your fingers in it and use it to lube up your clit and ease the flow of your fingers around the area.
Caress your lips with your other hand, and suck on a finger while you are finger-fucking yourself. You can alternate between the hand that is doing the fucking and the one you are licking/sucking on. There’s nothing wrong with tasting your own juices, and this will give you an idea what you taste like to anyone who will be going down on you (and, if you intend to go down on another girl, you’ll get an idea of what pussy tastes like!)
Lie on your stomach, with your hand in your crotch and grind on it. Put your hand and fingers in a variety of positions and find one that allows you to grind on your hand (fist, fingers up, etc.).
Put your body in a variety of different positions and locations while you caress or finger yourself. Just doing it on your back with your legs spread open will get boring after a while. Use pillows under your butt to raise it up, get onto your hands and knees in the doggy sex position, masturbate in the shower, in the pool (if you can), etc. Practice masturbating in your chair while you work on the computer and others are in a nearby room – do stuff that heightens the sensuality of the experience.
Use some KY, AstroGlide or other lube to make things nice and slippery. This will certainly help if you tend to not get as wet as you would like to, but can also be fun to use just for the heck of it. Use this stuff sparingly – you don’t want too much of it down there (it is possible to be over-lubed!).
Learn to use your Kegels (the muscles that stop the flow of urine when you pee), and practice exercising these while you masturbate. If you insert a finger or two into your vagina and close down on these muscles, you can feel their effects.
Some girls can bring themselves to orgasm through the squeezing or rubbing of their thighs together. This is another way to get off without being obvious about it (assuming you can control it, that is!). To practice being able to do this, bring yourself almost to orgasm, then pull your fingers/hands away and squeeze your thighs together to create the stimulation.
Pillows, Chairs, Couches, Etc.
Use pillows, chair arms (cushioned, of course), stuffed animals, or just about anything else you can get your legs around and hump it. Just get whatever it is in between your legs and in contact with your clit and grind away on it. This will roughly feel like what you’ll experience when you’re grinding on a guy in the cowgirl position (though you’ll have the added benefit of having a penis inside you!). Again, experiment with different positions, timing, etc. Add your hands and fingers into the mix as well.
Water: Shower, Bathtubs, Jacuzzis, etc.
Another common in-home masturbation aid is water, and this can be found in the form of shower heads, bathtubs, and Jacuzzi jets! Running water over your clit will produce some intense feelings in most girls. If you have a removable shower head, use it! Contrary to popular belief, they were invented for women to use to masturbate. The fact that they can be used to better clean areas of your body was purely coincidental! Be careful the first time you direct water at your naughty bits – you know that area is sensitive, and don’t want to overdo it right off the bat. Turn it on slowly and increase the pressure to the point where it is pleasurable to you. If it is one of the ShowerMassage models that allows you to select different types of flows, so much the better! If you are fortunate enough to have use of a Jacuzzi, position yourself where the jets spray their water onto your pubic area. Again, be mindful of the effect of the pressure the first time.
If you own nothing more than a standard bathtub without fancy things like removable shower heads, you can still have some fun, though it might require a little bit of acrobatics. Basically, you lie on your back and put your legs in a position where the water from the faucet can land on your pussy – again, keeping in mind to start out with only a slight water flow. If you can raise your waist to bring your pussy closer to the faucet outlet, then you might be able to increase the stimulation.
In all cases involving water, you should take care to not let running/shooting water into your pussy. The pressure of the water could hurt you, and allowing chlorinated water into your pussy could create some pH issues, and that would suck!
This should give you some good ideas of how to masturbate using just your hands or other stuff that everyone has around the house. Part III will cover the use of toys and other odds and ends that you might have access to to improve your masturbation experience!
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